Couples
For the two of you, from first dates to the long haul
Conversation cards
Conversation sparkers for your circle.
Good questions for every circle in your life: your marriage, your kids, your family table, your oldest friends and your small group. Shuffle, deal, and talk.
Free to start: every pack has free cards, and nothing is locked.
Sparker in numbers
- 19packs
- 9,500cards
- 500cards in every pack
- 0accounts, ads or trackers
Try a card
Every card is a real question.
Written to sound like a friend asking, not a worksheet. These are from the free samples.
Serious
What's a moment when you realized this was serious?
How it plays
Three taps to a better conversation.
1 Pick who's at the table
Your marriage, your family, your friends or your small group: Couples, Kids, Family table, Small group, Life stories and more. Every pack has its own deck, with its own card back.
2 Pick the kind of talk
Light and fun, Date night, Deep talk, Bedtime, Hard conversations. Kids questions are matched to your kid's age.
3 Deal and talk
The deck is shuffled, a card is dealt and turns face up. Swipe for the next one, or back to the last. Keep the good ones and hide the ones that don't fit.
The packs
A deck for every circle.
Each pack is written for its people, from newlyweds on date night to a four-year-old at bedtime, a parent and a grown child catching up, a grandparent telling the old stories, and a small group that trusts each other.
Marriage
Engaged
Talk it through before you say "I do"
Raising kids
Family table
Questions the whole family can answer at dinner, every age at once
Kids
A grown-up and a kid, ages 3 to 12
Teens
A grown-up and a teenager, ages 13 to 17
Grown-up family
Adult children
For parents and their grown children, talking as adults
Siblings
For grown brothers and sisters, about growing up together and now
Life stories
With a parent, grandparent or older friend, while you can still ask
Remembering
For people grieving the same person, to share stories and remember together
Community
Friends
Old friends catching up, or new friends getting closer
Small group
For church small groups and Bible studies, past the small talk
Mentoring
For a mentor and the person they meet with, one on one
Missions
Mission team
For adult teams serving together, from the first meeting to coming home
Youth mission team
For student teams and their leaders, before, during and after the trip
Family mission trip
For families serving together, every age at once
Work
Icebreakers
Team questions that stay right for work
Interviewer
Questions to get to know an applicant, for any job
Interviewee
Questions to ask in your interview, for any job
Reward ideas
Ways to thank people at work, big and small
At the table
Made to feel like a card game.
A real shuffle
Every session starts with the deck riffled in front of you, then cards come off the top one at a time.
Pass the phone
Each new card turns around to face the person across the table.
Favorites and Hide
Keep the questions you love. Hide the ones that don't fit, for any reason; repeats hide in every pack.
Mix it up
A bit of everything, from the tones, answer lengths and topics you switch on. Every topic starts on, and any of them can be switched off, one pack at a time.
Action challenges
Most packs have 50 things to do, not just talk about, in a list of their own: plan the date, call the cousin, cook the recipe.
Your topics, your call
Turn off any topic in any pack, from faith and intimacy to money or hard things, one pack at a time, so each pack fits the people you play it with. Nothing to explain to anyone.
Light, dark or automatic
Every pack has its own colors, a table and a card back to match, in light or dark, with ivory cards that are easy to read across the room.
iPhone and iPad
Big, clear cards on every screen, with Dynamic Type and VoiceOver support.
Privacy
Your conversations stay yours.
Sparker has no accounts, no ads and no tracking. Nobody types or records answers; you just talk. Favorites and settings stay on your device, and purchases are handled by Apple.
There's a seat for you.
Every pack free to try. Deal the first card tonight.